Thursday, June 17, 2010

Can anyone justify or help me understand why my girlfriend wants to cut her hair?

This had been on my mind since she mentioned it (of course) .. She tells me that she is fed up with her hair and that she wants to get it cut (buzz or bald). It's supposed to happen this weekend, and I am feeling quite strange.



She has a scalp condition that makes fixing her hair difficult I guess, and she is serious about doing this.



I love her, dont get me wrong. I am just saddened that she wants to do this even though I've told her countless times that she is beautiful to me.



How should I feel, anything I can tell her?



Can anyone justify or help me understand why my girlfriend wants to cut her hair?

Pixie cuts can be very attractive on women. I have always liked women with short hair, it doesn't get in the way and you never hear "Ouch you are on my hair a**hole." Go with, it might be a nice change.



Can anyone justify or help me understand why my girlfriend wants to cut her hair?

if its long she should consider donating it for cancer wigs..



i did that once and felt really great about it..



i mean if your going to cut your hair anyways why not give it to someone who needs it



Can anyone justify or help me understand why my girlfriend wants to cut her hair?

if she wants to cut it let her



Can anyone justify or help me understand why my girlfriend wants to cut her hair?

You will just have to stand by her decision to cut it. If it makes her unhappy the way her hair is, then by all means let her do it.



Can anyone justify or help me understand why my girlfriend wants to cut her hair?

nothing talk about it



Can anyone justify or help me understand why my girlfriend wants to cut her hair?

You can tell her you'll love her no matter what!! If she has a scalp condition, I would think you feel sympathetic!!!



Can anyone justify or help me understand why my girlfriend wants to cut her hair?

Ouch that's rough. I guess tell her how much you like her with hair, and how uncomfortable you'd feel with her buzzing it off, but it's kinda her choice so good luck with that. She can always wear wigs.



Can anyone justify or help me understand why my girlfriend wants to cut her hair?

I think someone has a crush on their friend



Can anyone justify or help me understand why my girlfriend wants to cut her hair?

Sometimes women just face a time in their lives when a drastic change is necessary. Has she been to the doctor about her condition? Has it worked? Is there something else going on in her life, maybe a little bit of depression. I know that when my ex husband left me, I had hair down to my waist. I had it cut off to my shoulders and had the wildest highlights put in. I hated it. Talk to her emotionally, make sure she is okay. IF she is serious, do it together. Talk to her about donating it to Locks of Love. It has to be about 10 inches long. They use it to make natural wigs for cancer patients.



Can anyone justify or help me understand why my girlfriend wants to cut her hair?

well let her cut her hair but BLAD???? just let her get it short and just tell her up front



Can anyone justify or help me understand why my girlfriend wants to cut her hair?

ok she wants to cut it all off?? if so let her it will grow back



if thats what make her happy and if u love her then be happy for her



Can anyone justify or help me understand why my girlfriend wants to cut her hair?

Calm down, hair grows back it is not like she is getting a boob job.



Your girlfriend wants to try something easier for her hair style. Most guys do like their women with longer hair, but in the end it is her hair. She will still be beautiful to you, please reassure her of that.



Good luck.



Can anyone justify or help me understand why my girlfriend wants to cut her hair?

sometimes they get boring from it and cut it... it's normal.. let her chose what she want dear...maybe she want to change her look... encourge her to do what she feel it better to her.. good luck



Can anyone justify or help me understand why my girlfriend wants to cut her hair?

try doing something similar i.e. try dressing up the way she does not like- if she likes to see u in jeans start always wearing formal or some thing- and when she tells u she does not like ur dressing, tell her u do not like her hair cutting idea. she will understand. if she does not, let her do it this time. if it does not suit on her or something, she will not do it again. its not a big issue.



Can anyone justify or help me understand why my girlfriend wants to cut her hair?

Ah, gee. I don't even like seeing bald on guys, let alone girls.



Could you ask her to keep SOME of it? Buzz isn't great, but it's better than bald.



I've had long hair, and hated how much time and fuss and money it was to take care of it. Now I have short hair, and it's just wash and go.



Her hair, tho, so she gets to choose.



Can anyone justify or help me understand why my girlfriend wants to cut her hair?

You should feel however you want to feel.



But her hair is her hair, not yours, so she is free to do whatever she wants to do with it. And even more if she has any kind of condition that needs to be taken care of.



If you don閳ユ獩 like short hair (or no hair at all), then just tell her, I閳ユ獡 sure there can be a middle point where you both can be happy. But the final decision is hers, not yours, don閳ユ獩 forget that.



Besides, you never know if you don閳ユ獩 try it. My wife wanted to cut her hair, I didn閳ユ獩 like the idea, but I only told her I like long hair, but to do whatever she wants to do. She cut it short, but with a nice style, and let me tell you, that night we both had a crazy sex episode just cause of her hair, cause we both got exited, me as how good she looked, and her cause she like the fact that I liked her haircut a lot.



You never know if you don閳ユ獩 try閳?;)



Can anyone justify or help me understand why my girlfriend wants to cut her hair?

the first person to answer is right ask her to first find out how to donate the hair to some cancer wig place.



and i suggest that she go to the cancer treatment ward of a hosp and see all the ladies that are bald . i know that they would much prefer to have there hair. but at least she can really see what others look like that are bald.



other then that its kind of wild who knows this might just be a huge turn on for you .



its really up to her so what more could you do.



Can anyone justify or help me understand why my girlfriend wants to cut her hair?

You have apparently made your feelings clear to your girlfriend. I'm glad to know that you will love her no matter what, and I'm sure she understands that.



She has a scalp condition. Cut her some slack. The hair will grow back, and YOU'LL get used to it sooner than you think.



Be supportive tell her you will love her no matter what her decision. After all, it IS HER hair. And it is ONLY hair.



Be glad it's just a scalp condition. What if it was CANCER?!



Can anyone justify or help me understand why my girlfriend wants to cut her hair?

Probably because of her scalp condition or some strange fad. Maybe she would prefer a wig.

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